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21 Jul, 2007

How I choose to communicate

Posted by: James Laws In: The Art of the Talk

Tomorrow is a little strange for me because I wont be doing the teaching. Instead Kevin will be taking the helm and I am really looking forward to it. I think he has a great message prepared and it promises to be challenging to all of us.

Today instead of spending a lot of time to tie up the message for Sunday I have been sharing with Kevin some things that I do to communicate the message the best way I know how. Here are just a few things I shared.

  • In most cases, when covering a large story in the Bible I opt to tell the story over reading the story. The reason is that many times our people have read the story as it is written and have a hard time connecting. By telling the story I can bring it into everyday situations that they can relate to.
  • I always try to find the one point that must be shared and then drill it into people’s hearts. I have been a big multiple point preacher before and I have found that most of the time people only remember one thing out of a message anyway. I might as well start there in the first place if thats where I am going to wind up in the end.
  • Deliver your message to one person. I know that sounds strange but here is what I mean. Act as if you are having a conversation with a great friend that you care deeply for. In the end each person will feel as if you were speaking only to them.
  • Be vulnerable. Nothing speaks to people more than your real life. They connect and see themselves in it. Once that happens it is a whole lot easier for them to come to similar conclusions.

These are just a few ways in which I choose to communicate. What are some of yours?

1 Response to "How I choose to communicate"

1 | suzanne

July 26th, 2007 at 12:00 am

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I’m sorry I didn’t see this until today. Now I can’t wait to read on and see how the weekend went!

How do I communicate? Apparently on blogs and messenger and email….

I actually was in Boise, ID for the last five days attending a seminar for work, and the guy had some really interesting tips on speaking, training and selling yourself….maybe I will start communicating some way other than blogs!

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